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  • Witziger_Waschbaer@feddit.orgtome_irl@lemmy.worldme_irl
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    2 months ago

    There are several people I consider (very) close friends, that don’t live in the same city as me anymore. We message regularly, do some online gaming here and there and visit each other as often as possible. And every time we do it’s just like back when we hung out in uni every day. While we don’t have as much time as back then, the quality of friendship is the same or even grew. I think it’s about consciously making time and the effort for each other, even if it can’t be every other day or week.

    Also not having kids makes it much easier, time wise, I guess.










  • I think you are missing the point I’m trying to make. Glorifying a system can never be the answer. It isn’t for the US (as we can all prominently see right now) and it isn’t for China. Or any system, country, whatever. There will always be drawbacks and things you won’t know about. Keeping a critical eye on the status quo is the only way to develop a better future in any system. By just blindly praising it, it will turn sour at some point. The relatives you visited too will tell you about their daily troubles living within their system, if they have the feeling they can do that. Not american by the way. From a country that has a history of quite intense surveillance, if that gives you a hint. Maybe that’s part of what makes me critical after seeing the billion electronic eyes of Shanghai. A system that afraid of it’s own citizens can’t be perfect.