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Cake day: October 17th, 2023

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  • I feel you there. As far as dating apps go. In my experience, vet your photos. Photos I thought were good were bad and I used photofeeler to find my best pictures to use. Get some friends to help you with capturing some good pics and writing a good short profile.

    I am a decent looking guy but wouldn’t say I’m hot, and had pretty decent amount of matches and dates. Swipe yes less, be picky and don’t just swipe right on every hot girl make sure there is at least something about them you think you would match vibes on. Keep chats brief and ask for a casual date early on and within a few days. Go on bad dates, it builds confidence.


  • Zannsolo@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldA true cinephile
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    6 days ago

    It’s all relative man. Sure you might be ugly on a scale of 1-10 but a subset of that scale like 1-3 you might be still be ugly but if you expand the scale, say from -3-1 you the too dog man! Just find yourself a -3 and she’ll want to watch movies on a laptop on your bed, just make sure you reinforce the bed frame.


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    7 days ago

    I shaved my head clean, I’m pretty luckly I’ve got a great head shape for a bicked head. Unfortunately I did it just to see and I have a really full head of hair at 42. I’ll never get to share my beautiful bald head with the world.


  • I didn’t want kids til I met my wife when I was 38. I knew she was the one pretty early on and I knew that if I wanted to to keep dating her I’d have to reconsider my position. I had my first kid at 40 and my 2nd is on the way, and being a father is awesome.

    I ended a 5 1/2 year relationship because I didn’t want kids with her. The partner you’re with definitely matters.



  • I’m not hot. I’m not ugly, but also not hot and had plenty of dates from dating apps when I was on them.

    Good job, not a slob, decent bio, and quality photos of myself.

    I was also really selective in who I swiped on. I didn’t swipe right on every hot chick. I swiped right on girls I found attractive and best guess from profile lifestyles were similar.

    I went out with plenty of attractive women, hooked up with a handful and dated a few. I also went out on plenty of bad dates, the girl who carried a dead lizard she found on the ground. The autistic racist. The girl with gnarly teeth.

    Then I randomly met my wife through a coworker.