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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • As a happily married 39 year old I look at the modern dating scene with horror. I think that he probably doesn’t “just” want to sleep with you, he probably just likes having someone like you in his life. People can be complex, we construct these binaries that simplify things, reality is more complicated. If you enjoy hanging out with a person, do that. Don’t lead him on just to get to go on nice dates, and also be aware that he might be a pig that does just want to sleep with you. Maybe he mentioned going on trips to try to entice you into a relationship. Don’t get into a position where you feel like you owe him anything.

    The age difference is pretty big but there’s a lot of loneliness in the world. So maybe talk to your mutual friends, does he have a history of chasing younger women?







  • This letter is saying that it’s not a sin to get married right? Because Paul didn’t think anyone should get married because the world was about to end, like any second.

    I don’t think it by any means over turned the convention of multiple wives and concubinage.

    He also says there’s no such thing as male and female in Christ right? So if two Christians want to get married in Christ it doesn’t matter what their pre-marriage genders were, because they’re one in Christ right?