• some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
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    6 days ago

    I find women with hairy armpits hot because they don’t let society dictate how they should live.

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      6 days ago

      You’re assuming no woman without hairy armpits is simply making that choice for themselves.
      You’re also assuming no woman with hairy armpits is simply conforming with their non-conformist social group (such as “throathole” up there in the OOP), doing it to fit in with their explicitly-defined definitions of social rebellion.

      My favorite color’s pink, and one day when I was wearing a pink shirt, a friend, well-intentioned, I’m sure, commented ‘real men wear pink’, as if to compliment my ‘rebellion’ toward gender/sex norms.

      But it wasn’t rebellion. It’s just a color I like. Same can just as easily apply to a guy wearing blue, who isn’t trying to ‘conform’, but simply likes that color.

      Sometimes it’s just not that deep, and honestly I kind of respect it more when someone makes a choice like that based on neither conforming nor rebelling against an expectation. In a way, it’s more non-conformist to not give a shit what ‘side’ your subjective choices happen to land on.

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        6 days ago

        I dunno. I bought a pink hoodie at a female musician’s show and my then gf didn’t think I’d wear it in public. The first time I wore it, a tough looking dude said, “cool hoodie.” I liked the design, but I also appreciated that some men wouldn’t have worn it and a guy who stereotypically wouldn’t be thought to appreciate it did. We can all like things for whatever reasons.

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        6 days ago

        I find some women hot. I don’t judge by the armpits, that’s not my thing. Boldness is hot when wielded correctly tho. I agree with the spirit of rebellion guy, even if not the wording.