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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • The bust is definitely pushing wages down, but a lot of tech companies have been able to decouple work from location.

    Amazon doesn’t have to pay a wage competitive in Seattle any more for new talent. In the process of searching for the second HQ, Amazon got a lot of information from various cities on what they could offer Amazon, which let Amazon build out new offices where the cost of living is lower. If the job is full remote, you’re competing against applicants from around the world, not just the city you’re living in.

    So you don’t need to go the path of visas, but it doesn’t mean the only alternative is well paying jobs in high cost of living cities.



  • Not exactly.

    In the USA, a ton of malls got built in the 1950’s to 1980’s because of various tax incentives. These malls were anchored by department stores, providing a middle class place to buy goods.

    Department stores tanked when dealing with big big box stores and online retail. Also, some mall specialty stores died off as well. Without that foot traffic, dead malls started to form.

    Some malls are fighting back by increasing food and entertainment options, but the economics of malls are pretty rough.





  • I’ve always had my own room at home, so dorm living was an adjustment.

    Bathrooms were relatively easy; showers in closing stalls, sinks, and toilets on the same floor. I never had an issue with privacy there, although sometimes I’d use bathrooms in less busy buildings if I wanted some peace while shitting.

    I had several roommates, including moving into a room where two roommates couldn’t get along. You and the other person just try to come up with ways to live together. That includes being aware of each other’s schedules and using alone time that is given. If you need to be alone while your roommate is around, I suggest leaving to less occupied area.

    I’d also suggest learning to eat with others. A lot of social activities run on food; I’ve had great conversations with others over lunch or dinner.



  • why don’t we American’s have the common sense to stay out of the sun?

    Parasols used to be a thing in Western culture up to the Victorian Era. Back then, it was a sign of wealth to have pale skin, since it meant that you weren’t working outside in the fields. That reversed in the early 20th century when the default work switched from field work to factory work.

    From then on, a tan was a sign that you had enough earnings to take time off and do things like go to the beach. Parasols died out around then since the goal of keeping pale switched to getting a tan.