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I like American music. Do you like American music? I like American music, too.

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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • Separate, no, not completely.

    I’m very “Death of he Artist”, though, and think that the artist gets no special say in what the art is about once it’s complete. So yes, I still listen to and enjoy songs by The Mamas and the Papas and most songs by Ace of Base despite the reprehensible qualities of those artists, because the former didn’t write songs about sexual abuse and the most of the letter’s songs aren’t tinged by white supremacy.

    But knowing what I do about them now, I definitely cast a critical eye over their catalogs, and of course I’ll never pay for anything by Ace of Base ever again.













  • Crack two large eggs in a bowl and whisk in:

    • 1 Tb rendered bacon fat
    • 4 fz yoghurt
    • 3 fz water
    • 4 ts molasses
    • 1 C AP flour (you can sub up to a quarter of this with barley, buckwheat, or whole grain flour)
    • 1 ts salt
    • 4 ts baking powder (if using soda, 2 ts baking soda and 2 ts corn starch)
    • 1 Tb pumpkin pie spices

    Once the batter is free of lumps, hear the griddle and stir (not mix!) in 2 ts of apple cider vinegar.

    I’ve perfected this recipe over a decade of fatherhood. You’re welcome.


  • I believed Ukraine could win, with enough help. I remember Ukraine pleading for help in order to win.

    I feel the same now. I never doubted Ukraine had an agenda, their agenda was to remain independent. That’s not sinister, and it’s an agenda I support.

    I am pretty irritated at you specifically for the way you’re “mentioning” this, framing it as sinister and underhanded instead of the forthright plea for help to remain independent that it always was.


  • Definitely not, an LLM will not be able to give you what you need. As you’ve already discovered, neither will most humans. But you’ve got to sift through a lot of silt to find the nuggets of gold.

    I’d suggest you start by not looking for a girlfriend at all; just look for a friend. Or at least, don’t base your search on what what you think a girlfriend should look like. All of my long-term relationships came to me that way: either making a new friend, but she wanted to be more than friends; or making a new friend and she hooked me up with a single friend of hers.

    People can tell if you’re self-sufficient versus looking for someone to fill a need in you. The former is attractive; the latter can be a turn-off. You’ve seen this yourself with the women that you discerned were just looking for a certain kind of partner to elevate their own status.